I was talking with a friend (KJC) today about dating. I haven't dated much. It's quite a weird experience, at least I think. I dunno. Definitely not something I'm used to. Anyway, as I was talking to her about the idea of dating, she suggested that I talk to Jesus about these questions:

  • How can Jesus fill right now the things I am desiring for wanting a boyfriend?
  • And what do these things reveal about myself?
  • What are the things that Jesus needs to work on in me for me to be ready for that kind of relationship?
  • How will Jesus be glorified in me as a dating woman? As a single woman?
I think I'd have to say that these are questions we should all wrestle with, married or single. They are pretty revealing, at least I would think.

This convo is what led to the previous post's whining about "what about him?" Doing all this work of answering these questions while other ppl don't and they receive the "perks." I won't elaborate much more than that for fear that people may respond negatively to what I say. Not that anyone reads this. HAH.

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